The Hookup
That Changed Everything
A story about two souls, a night of chemistry, and the clarity that followed.
A Complicated Spark
đŹâLetâs Just Be Friendsâ
It had been three weeks since that morning â the one neither of them could name without wincing.
Daniel arrived early, just like he used to, but this time it wasnât her apartment; it was the small cafĂ© Tola had chosen, halfway between their offices. Neutral ground. The kind of place with soft jazz and too many plants â safe, intentional.
Tola walked in wearing calm like armor. Her smile was polite, not warm.
âHey,â she said, setting her phone down. âThanks for coming.â
He nodded. âOf course.â The words felt too easy, too practiced.
They talked â first about work, then about the podcasts theyâd been listening to. It was ordinary, even friendly. Until Daniel mentioned a new dating app heâd deleted after a week. Tola laughed â a short, startled sound â and the silence that followed was too honest to ignore.
She finally said, âMaybe we should learn how to be friends before we start fixing anyone else.â
He smiled, but the ache behind it said everything.
âA friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.â
Proverbs 17:17 (NIV)
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đ The Other Woman
They decided to meet again, just as friends.
No late texts, no lingering touches, no talking about âwhat happened.â It was a rule Daniel had suggested, and Tola had agreed too quickly, as if afraid her hesitation might betray her.
For the next few weeks, they fell into a rhythm. Shared memes. Quick check-ins. Saturday morning coffee when neither had plans. There were moments of real ease - until life, predictably, interrupted.
It was at a charity networking mixer - a casual evening for a cause Tola supported - when she saw Daniel walk in. She smiled instinctively, then froze.
A woman was beside him. Confident. Effortlessly stylish. The kind of woman who spoke with her eyes before her lips moved.
âTola,â Daniel said when he reached her. âThis is Amaka.â
His tone was friendly, but his eyes darted, searching her expression for something - permission, maybe.
âHi, Amaka,â Tola said, her voice perfectly calm. âWeâve met before, havenât we?â
Amaka smiled, unbothered. âBriefly, yes. A few weeks ago. You were with Daniel that evening.â
That night, Tola discovered something uncomfortable: being intentional didnât erase instinct. She hated how her body reacted - the stiff smile, the tightened shoulders, the ache of wanting to seem unaffected.
Later, when Amaka went to greet someone across the room, Daniel leaned toward Tola.
âI didnât plan this,â he said quietly. âWe just ran into each other last week. She wanted to come.â
Tola sipped her drink. âYou donât owe me an explanation.â
âI know,â he replied. âBut I wanted to give one anyway.â
For a moment, they both stood there â two people trying to rewrite their story while the old chapter refused to stay closed.
And as Amaka laughed across the room, Tola realized something: maybe being intentional wasnât about control at all.
Maybe it was about choosing how to show up even when your heart didnât cooperate.
âAbove all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.â
â Proverbs 4:23 (NIV)
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đ When Peace Feels Fake
Tola drove home in silence.
The city outside her window blurred into streaks of gold and gray - Lagos had a way of matching her moods. Every traffic light felt like a moment to think, but she didnât want to.
By the time she got home, sheâd already convinced herself she was fine. She took off her earrings, poured water into a glass, opened her laptop⊠and then just stared at the screen.
Her phone buzzed.
Daniel: âYou handled that so gracefully. Thank you.â
She typed, âNo worriesâ, then deleted it. Typed again, âIt was good seeing youâ, then deleted that too.
Finally, she locked the screen and dropped the phone face-down.
Tola had spent months trying to be intentional â to mean what she said, to not lead with emotion, to choose peace over impulse. But tonight, peace felt fake.
She walked to the mirror, studying her own reflection - eyes sharp, lips pressed, posture perfect. You wanted friendship, she told herself. This is what it looks like.
Except it didnât. Friendship wasnât supposed to feel like swallowing glass.
She lay on her bed and opened her journal, the one she started after the first mistake â the one labeled âThe Work.â
She flipped past old pages filled with affirmations and quotes, until she found the entry that mattered:
âI want love that grows in daylight, not shadows.â
It had sounded wise when she wrote it. Now, it sounded naĂŻve. Because Daniel was daylight once - bright, steady, present - until the night blurred everything.
And yet, she couldnât deny it: seeing him again had awakened something. Not longing, exactly - more like unfinished business.
Tola closed the journal, whispering to herself,
âMaybe being intentional means accepting when the heart still stumbles.â
âThe Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.â
â Psalm 34:18 (ESV)
She turned off the light, but her thoughts didnât rest. Somewhere between guilt and grace, she realized â this wasnât the end of their story. Just the pause before something shifted again.
Across town, Daniel sat in his car outside Amakaâs apartment. The night was quiet except for the hum of the streetlights. He hadnât planned to stay this long, but Amaka had a way of keeping him still â calm, confident, unbothered by his hesitations.
She leaned into the passenger window, smiling softly.
âYou were distracted tonight,â she said. âYou kept checking the door. Was it because of her?â
Daniel looked down at the steering wheel. âIt wasnât like that.â
Amaka tilted her head. âThen what was it like?â
He hesitated. The truth pressed against his throat - that seeing Tola again had stirred something he thought heâd buried; that friendship felt harder than distance; that guilt still lived in the spaces they didnât talk about.
But instead, he said, âItâs complicated.â
Amaka smiled knowingly, but her tone sharpened just slightly.
âJust make sure youâre not trying to fix something thatâs meant to stay broken.â
She kissed his cheek - brief, deliberate - and stepped out of the car. The door shut softly behind her.
Daniel watched her walk away, his phone lighting up on the dashboard. A message from Tola:
âThanks for coming today. Iâm glad we can still talk.â
He stared at it for a long time, thumb hovering over the keyboard, then finally turned the screen off.
For a moment, he sat there â two names in his phone, two unfinished stories, one heart that hadnât decided what it really wanted.
âFor where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.â
â Matthew 6:21 (NIV)
đ„ Reflection
Sometimes, being âintentionalâ doesnât mean youâll feel strong or holy.
It means youâll choose honesty even when your heart is messy.
Like Tola, there will be moments when your version of peace feels forced â when youâre trying to forgive, move on, or simply not fall apart. But real peace isnât pretending you donât care; itâs trusting that God can work in the spaces where you still care.
This week, ask yourself:
- Am I being honest about what I feel, or just suppressing it to look healed?
- What boundary do I need to set â not to punish, but to protect peace?
- Where can I invite God into the unfinished parts of my story?
âAnd the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.â
â Philippians 4:7 (NIV)
Next: Episode 3
Actions & Intentions
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Hmm… Just suppressing to look healed? Wow!
âMaybe being intentional means accepting when the heart still stumblesâ Hmm đ€
âReal peace isnât pretending you donât care; itâs trusting God to work on spaces where still careâ So profound!